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Be Seen or Be Forgotten: The Brutal Truth About Visibility and Impact

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 Being visible doesn’t just mean posting on social media or being loud in meetings. Visibility is about showing up with intention , making your values, ideas, and contributions known. This thought has been constantly crossing my mind over the past few weeks. It further amplified when I spotted someone's WhatsApp status like this: Let’s get straight to it. In this world, it’s not enough to be good . You have to be seen as being good . People don’t reward effort. They reward exposure . People don’t remember the silent genius in the back. They remember the one who spoke up, showed up, and made an impression, even if that impression was just louder confidence with less competence . (Quite frustrating, isn't it?) If that pisses you off, good. It should. That anger? That’s your inner potential getting sick of your own silence.

The Voice of Silence : A Room Full of People, Yet Completely Alone

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  "The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It’s the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared." — Lois Lowry, The Giver Hello My Fellow readers. This blog is specially for those people, who "think" they are lonely. Well, the topic of today's blog is something specifically I was saving for many days. Actually, by writing this blog, I might be able to convey the immense amount of whirlwinds of thoughts rushing through my mind, to the people like you. After all, have a look at the above quote. This quote perfectly captures the sorrow of carrying unspoken emotions, whether it's grief, lost love, forgotten sacrifices, or silent struggles. It emphasizes the deep human need for connection even when words fail. If you are wondering, if that is me in the above image, no it's not. It has become a need nowadays to speak on this issue. I have been hearing many cases, in which loneliness makes someone go crazy.  There’s a peculiar kind of loneline...

The Achievement Dopamine : Secret to Hookin' Up

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  "The pursuit of rewards often blinds us to the joy of the process. In games, as in life, the journey matters more than the destination." Looks like an interesting topic isn't it? Well, you are right. We must all love playing games on Mobile, Tablets, and PC Consoles. Have you noticed that nowadays, each and every game has an achievement section? This achievement section rewards you once you complete the subsequent quest. But little you may know, the role of this "achievement" bonanza is most like to keep you interested to carry forward. Imagine a person who loves collecting trophies—not because they enjoy the activity behind earning them (sports, academics, etc.) but solely for the sake of having a larger collection than others. They may no longer care about playing the game, learning the sport, or gaining the skill; the process becomes secondary to the reward. I am going to keep it as a case study for this blog. So let us decode, as I believe that you might n...

Have We Lost the Unspoken Art of On-Table Conversations?

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  "Addiction is deadly. When you are at it, even though you know its disadvantages, you still trudge down the path; regardless of the outcomes". You might be wondering, fellow readers, if today's blog post's title and above quote make sense. Well, stick with me through this blog post, and feel free to jot down your thoughts in the comments. My close friends are well aware (not quite sure) of my personality. I tend to be the quietest person in a room full of people. Thus, heavy conversations are certainly not my trait. I engage in conversation with the person if our interests align at some point. But I am interested in chatting with that person sitting with me who talks back and we have a fun discussion; not someone who is constantly on his/her....mobile phone. I am putting forth my observations, Whenever I wander around for lunch or dinner in hotels, I see these kind of people everywhere, I repeat everywhere. Imagine sitting at the table with 3-4 people, yet someone c...

Does others' Opinions Matter?

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"Ah!! There you are again." What do you make up of this tone, the user is annoyed to welcome you. But this is not the same case with me, as I am here to welcome fellow readers and let us talk (blog) on a very general topic. A topic which most of the people in the world face. It is none other than "What will others say??" A Harsh Reality Check: Let me emphasize a thing. I have been with multiple people, of course, each with a different personality. We have to live life with the person accordingly after analyzing or should I say "reading" his/her mind. Let me discuss a few examples of people. 1) A person who has strong opinions Some people I met had a very strong opinion about a particular thing. The fact that it is so strong that they never admit its shortcomings. We must have observed this kind of person everywhere; in fact in each of our friend circles. Such kinds of person never change their opinion. They don't tend to think about their group's o...

Mastering the Art of Anger Management: How I managed to solve my half of the problems

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 "No!! YOU AGAIN!!" Oh, I am sorry. I was angry. Just kidding. This is how most people react when someone approaches them after having a tremendously horrible day. Obviously the person is in a very bad mood and he/she will shoo away anyone, regardless of the intentions of the approached guy. In this article, we are going to talk about one of the important topics, which is "Anger". To put things simply, Anger is a natural emotion that everyone experiences at some point in their lives. However, when left unchecked, it can wreak havoc on our personal and professional relationships, physical health, and overall well-being. The good news is that by taking the necessary steps to control our anger, we can significantly improve our quality of life and solve many of our problems. In this blog post, we will explore effective anger management techniques and how they can lead to a happier, healthier, and more productive life. I will start off with my own story of course. The pe...

Hax and Fax: How I managed to reduce my screen time

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 Dear Readers, as the titles Hax (Hacks) and Fax (Facts) suggest, you might think "Here comes yet another blogger discussing the disadvantages of mobile phone devices." That's not the fact here to be utterly honest. In this blog post, I will share some Hacks which I managed to incorporate to reduce my screen time of mobile drastically. Also, I will share some Facts that might help a bit too. What do we tend to do in our free time nowadays? We either scroll through social media sites or play games online on the phone. Although this is the same thing I do, I would suggest keeping the usage limited and not too much. Not long ago, I suffered a severe headache in the backside of my head, implying that it was a kind of pressure on the eyes. Even though I keep wearing blue ray glasses, it became unbearable at a point.